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Thursday, January 17, 2008
10:24 AM I was reading Cleo Magazine February Issue last night and cross upon this article which really suits my situation with him. It's one of the points in 9 things not worth risking your relationship for. That point is YOUR JOBS. Here what it states. "At different times in our lives, we have different priorities. When career success – with its long hours and perhaps business travel – is top on the agenda, relationships invariably suffer. And all those "I’m working to make a great life for us" justifications seem hollow when all you want is to be with the one you love. It's not that you can't have a relationship and a career. Rather, it's about finding someone whose agenda matches yours. But no one wants to feel like their partner is more loyal to a company than to them. Your boss will only love you when you're contributing to his bonus but your partner will love you regardless. Remember this before your loved one starts to feel as if they’re being made redundant." I find it so true. I worked office hours time. He works from 9 am to 8 or 9 pm especially when he has Roadshow. If he's stationed at the office then, it's office hours. So it's the same... long hours to begin with. Even he has appointments on an OFF DAY and then he will meet me up. And I'm starting to feel redundant. I start to think that his up most and top priority is his work. I started to get the vibe from him that he wants to earn more money so that our future would be better. (Not saying that it's not good, it is actually.) And I need to be more patient and accept the way the situation is. But I know if I do that, it will even hurt me more inside. Even Dan from 98.7 fm told me that people have different priorities in life. That both of us need to talk and find a consensus in where my relationship stands. That me and him need to talk, communicate, and tell him how I feel. That's the same advice my bestie, Fiza and Lin even gave to me. So I know I need to talk things out with him. But it's the time that I couldn't find. When we go out to meet, time just pass by so fast that by the time both of us realize it's 10 plus or 11 and I need to get back at home. The thing is when he's with me, it's different. I get all the attention I have. I get all the love that's he giving to me. So.... What's my problem then? |
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